beautiful life.

How often and how quickly life alters course.

It never ceases to surprise and invigorate me!

when it's not okay.

Have you ever been in a situation where the guilt trip was layered on thick and you felt you had no choice but to run?

I have been in such a place.

I have felt such a rub.

I have fled such a scene.

And I'd do it again. I would do it again.

turning the other cheek.

When someone you thought you could trust turns on you, what do you do?

First, confront them in love. Be peaceable and understanding, slow to anger. Furthermore, pour coals of goodness and mercy, grace and humility on their head.

Do not strike back -- this is exactly what is expected. Human nature would have us relate to one anther in whiplash fashion, eager to pull and prod each other into a never-ending struggle of wills. Which is fine, if you're in an actual battle with swords and cunning. Someone must always be the victor. Except, in this case, you both lose.

- Matthew 7:1-5

- Romans 12:20

- Matthew 18:15-17

- Proverbs 18:21

- Luke 6:29

hebrews 12:10-11

Our fathers disciplined us for a little while as they thought best; but God disciplines us for our good, that we may share in his holiness.

No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful.

Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.

simple joys in life.

Hannah -- How old are you?

Me -- I'm twenty-two. How old are you?

Hannah -- I'm five! (Shows me with her fingers.)

Ten minutes later ...

Hannah -- Are you an uh-dalt?

Me -- An adult?

Hannah -- Yeah, are you?

Me -- I guess so! (I smile at the question.)

Hannah -- (Big beaming smile, truly excited:) Coooool! I'm friends with an adult!!